Because I Know the Definition of Insanity *

"Oh, so it's all about you and your boundaries!!"

-- said by my son's very angry dad-the-shrink when I

told him tonight that I would, in fact, not be seeing an

eighth couples therapist with him because I had decided

after number seven that sitting in a little room with him

and making myself vulnerable again and again to his abuse

was perhaps not the healthiest way for me to spend my time

* "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results."

-- attributed to just about everyone in history